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Redditors who gave an unfaithful spouse a second chance, what's your story and how did that turn out?

My husband confessed out of the blue that he had cheated on me a couple of times with two different women during the previous two years. He basically convinced me that he had no idea what was happening each time and that it was pretty much an accident. He was my first for pretty much everything, and we had been married for six years and had two kids by the time he confessed. My world was pretty rocked, but I was stupid and believed that what he said was true. We each started counseling together and separately.

Over the next few months he kept adding things to the story. More encounters with each woman, more details added. And then I caught on to him having super flirty texts with a coworker. He kept brushing me off about it, until finally he promised he'd stop talking to her. Several months later I found out he had still been talking to her, just deleting the texts from his phone.

I moved out for two weeks. He promised to change and he was treating me better than ever. My stupid ass believed him, and I went back home. Things were ok for a while, until several more months later I found out he was constantly searching up an old girlfriend and a couple other girls that were acquaintances on Facebook. He never talked to them that I know of, but it was clear he wasn't just browsing.

I moved out again, this time for about six weeks. When I moved back in he was very different in a good way. His constant bad mood was gone and he was helping me with the kids and the house.

It's been six months since I moved back in, and he still seems like kind of a different person. The problem now is that I'm different too. I told him recently that it fucking sucks but I don't think I can ever love him the way I used to. I don't think of him the same, and I'm always waiting for something else to happen I'm incredibly depressed about it and to top it all off, I am about three months pregnant.

I love him but I don't know if I can ever trust him with my love again, and I don't know if that's enough to break up a (for the most part) happy family.

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