ADHD Direct Diagnosis

I do actually. My impulsive, hyperactive decisions have definitely put me back in some ways, but in others its given me experiences and learning I never would have gotten otherwise. I've been suicidal, even had a noose round my neck at some point, but didn't follow through. And am totally aware my impulsive decisions got me into an unfortunate position where I felt like killing myself. I struggled to have a girlfriend for longer than 2 months due to my ADHD caused anxiety and depression ruining not only relationships, but even my ability to recognise a good partner. But eventually I met someone intelligent, loving and patient who understands and appreciated my quirks. And as I get older (although I'm only 28) I'm learning to understand and manage my mental health, and uses it to enable my interests and creativity to flourish. Seeing many my friends earn more money than me because they didn't keep changing path is frustrating, but then like I say, I've had other experiences they haven't, like move from south England to Scotland, travel a bit, go back to education, and more.

I've never been able to hold a job for more than 15 months because I get restless. I took years out to mess out with my savings, did a multidisciplinary masters to cater to my broad interests, now gone back to work for just over a year now, but looking to switch to another career path.

Just give it time, follow your interests, and try your best to recognise when you're being impulsive and then, pause.

/r/glasgow Thread Parent