I'm not just sitting here being a silent judgemental actor. My previous partners wouldn't exactly describe me as "passive" in bed.

I've tried. I've been subtle. I've been not so subtle. I wouldn't be in here if I hadn't tried. I've tried to initiate so many times in so many ways. I've tried to get him to engage in so many ways. I've tried being playfully aggressive and I've tried just blatantly doing girly seductive stuff. Tied myself to the bedpost like a treat when he got home from work one day. He walked in, said "oh." and left the room and didn't come back. It's humiliating to have to untie yourself from your own bedpost.....

At some point I wore some over the knee socks and a longish sweater and he said "You're trying to seduce me aren't you?" And then he said he's too busy before proceeding to watch YouTube for three hours.