My mom's spent the last decade of her life still hating my dad and its amazing how she still finds ways to fuck him over even now that their little boy is now an adult.

For example, when I asked her about college and if she could help with tuition or costs her response was roughly "nuh uh, your dad won't pay for it? that cheap white fucker, always making promises and talking himself up like he's hot shit! oh god he makes so much money but he can't send his son to school, listen here son I will take out all the loans you need but only if you call him a cheap bastard and tell him to go fuck himself, to his face"

They divorced over a decade ago and haven't had any sort of communication in years. I don't know how she keeps the fury and toxic BPD shit going that long but god damn, I respect it.