My family is the same. My dads side of the family are all criminals, if they aren't in prison, dead, they're out and about living that life. Love them, they're fun, but I basically tell any girl Im with they can never meet that side of my family. After trying that out a few times, I realized very quickly my family scares people and rightfully so. On the bright side, they never met my uncle, he was a hitman, you know before somebody burnt his house down with him in it. The other uncle is in jail more multiple murders to... Saddest part is, all my siblings went that route, 5 brothers and 2 sisters. I'm the only one that finished school and tryed to stay away from that life. I live on the other side of the country & I rarely visit home. Last time I went was for my brothers funeral.... Police if youre reading this, you already know them, I'm sure you have vans monitoring them right now. So don't get your knickers in a knot.