Straight men who don’t like performing oral- why not?

I mean, I neither love it nor hate it. I enjoy pleasuring my partner and so enjoy doing it for that fact. But it’s undeniable that there’s a certain taste and odor, and on many woman it’s unappealing.

Additionally, unlike male ejaculate; woman’s secretions are unavoidable to consume/swallow. And I don’t always want to slurp down weirdly fishy/saline fluids.

Lastly, it’s not as obvious when orgasm has been reached or when your partner is enjoying it (or just general feedback), so unless your partner is open and vocal it kinda just feels like an endless task. This is more a cultural problem though, as it seems to be tied into particularly prudish cultures (Anglosphere Canadian and American women are standout here).

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