3. Stupid questions/unneccesary advice rant

Stupid questions/unneccesary advice rant

I don't think they're that trivial, it's all annoying crappy stuff to deal with. Like, people asking the gender, it's too early dumbass! My mom's friends (who are like aunts to me) are harping on about how I NEED to find out the gender ASAP! Gee, I would, but they don't do those scans til 20 weeks here, so I CAN'T STOP FUCKING BUGGING ME

Seriously it's like if you're not married the first thing people ask 'is this a good thing or..?' I wouldn't be TELLING you if it wasn't a good thing!

OR "Is your boyfriend excited?" and they ask it cautiously. Helll yeah, when we heard the heartbeat on the doppler he was grinning like a dumbass then wouldn't shut up about it the whole day, and anytime it's brought up he starts grinning like a dumbass again. It's adorable. He's SO excited for the ultrasound on thursday, he booked the day off even though it's after work and we're 'making a day of it'.

Hell, it's put fire under his ass to get us a proper place outta my mom's basement - we're looking at a house tonight!

It's like honestly, it was NOT planned, but so far it seems this babe is the best thing that happened to both of us (Other than finding each other, haha).

I don't know if you've gotten this yet, but i've had a few people 'i bet your boyfriend wants a little boy!' ummm nope we both want a girl, actually. He says 'I'm happy either way' whenever anyone asks, but he told me when he thinks of the baby he thinks of a little girl, he says 'she' whenever he refers the baby or actually calls her the name we've chosen. He NEVER says 'he' or 'Jon' (our boys name).

And we both, ideally, only want one. Him cause he's cheap, me cause I SO don't wanna be pregnant again. Not enjoying this. One and done if it's a girl! And then people act like that's horrible, cause I'm having one I NEED to have a second one. um nah. that's okay.

He's mainly REALLY hopeful it's twins though, and we'd both prefer either boy&girl twins or girl twins. I highly doubt it, twins on his side supposedly don't increase my chance of having twins. But we'll find out for sure on thursday!

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