no I'm sorry if it's interpreted in wrong way 'cause I'm not a native english speaking person and don't know how it sounds written, but I meant you do not gain anything about being angry of other peoples children, but it's ok to be angry of the situation.I didn' mean that alchoholics and other don't deserve children I just said how I tought before how it's unfair how I did everything right and had a miscarriage and some people endanger themselves and the fetus and they manage to give birth, was angry with my body. I tried to generally give my opinion of the situation and say that it's best to toughen up after a while 'cause you don't gain anything from bitter feelings towards others, and it's sometimes easier to think logically and scientificly over being too emotional. If you still have a chance to have a baby, then do that and focus on yourself, do tests, and be hopeful, if you cannot then think of an adoption or just settle with the situation evetually. What do you think a long term bitter feelings and depression will bring to you? Nothing good. And yes, this all is coming from a person who had a miscarriage and these are my toughts after a few months of it happening.