tifu NEED someone to PM ASAP

Bad gramma just trying to get it down real quick

Ok, this is a bit of a handful to read but I will be so very great full for even just some input..

Alright you may think I'm overthinking this situation but I just feel like I might have kinda made thing kinda awkward. I have to give you background or else you would really be able to answer the question I feel like.

So her dad and my dad are great (if not best) Friends and her dad loves me. We have been family friends since like 8 (both just about 19 now). We never really interacted after 10 I feel like for while until like highschool. We went to a football game together with dads which went well we were both clearly shy to see each other after a while. After, at one like a few weeks months later her dad tells my dad to tell me to ask her to the movies and she will def say yes. I was hopelessly shy kid early in highschool and I had at least 4 more chances to kind of go on a date and get to know her and stuff and refused because how scared I was. (I just wanna go back and slap past me). Parents also were convinced she liked me and mom even got friend to convince me that she's probably interested but this is by freshmen year in COLLEGE. So I start talking to her more trying to get to know her and I seems like she's backed off a little since highschool when she would be a little more involved when we would text. I'm convinced she's moved on but she's honestly such a down to earth cool smart person that I want to stay in my life so I really was hesitant about making things weird.

Fast forward to now I haven't texted her in 3 weeks and I tell my friend there's this girl that I think I might like for some reason idk why I said that but I did and so he checked out my texts and says text her like u DEFIANTLY should trust you will be happy you did. I'm hesitant but I eventually did because I just kinda thought I'll never get a gf if I'm always a pussy about things so I text her today and say "hey what's up" no big deal right. She doesn't respond for two he but I know she saw it because she posted a snap store 10 min later but i knew she was kinda busy so I wasn't worried.

She answers "hey!" Then I don't answer till later tonight like around 11:30 saying "yeah I completely passed out earlier but I have last second plans we can talk tmrw maybe.?" Then I proceed with " sorry I kinda pick on random people to text when I'm drunk" which I was but that was AFTER I said hey what's up.

SO .... I'm realizing she's going to wake up in the morning and think "he drunk me again??" Or "why is he being wired" I fear she may think I'm trying to something when I just realizing I just want to friends because our schedule wouldn't allow us to date and frankly I'm ok with just being good friends.

I'm probably overthinking it but I just feel like what I said is giving her a wrong impression and she might back off more from me because she thinks I'm trying something which I'm not.

I know Orobably sound like the stupidest person you have ever met and idk if this all completely makes sense but I need to figure something out to say before she responds back to my stupid weird drunk texts.

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