Just read your update: and sadly this is the issue with this subreddit! Men will jump in the comments screaming not all men!!! But obviously we’re not talking about all men, if you(op) were talking about all men, you probably wouldn’t have found your husband if you thought all men were like that. If you aren’t that type of man great, but in this sub we like to talk about our experiences with different types of men, there’s no reason to self boost yourself in the comments. Or spam Reddit Cares or hop in our DMs with some bs. It’s crazy that we have to put “not all men” in our post because y’all rush to the comments saying “well I’m not like that” well listen here buddy a lot of man are like that nowadays, and I’m pretty sure if you aren’t like that you wouldn’t need to announce it under every post. If you want to come to this subreddit and hear/learn about things in the perspective of women, that’s great but we don’t need to hear you aren’t like that.