A guy will watch a woman being strangled in a video while sobbing violently and go, "women love this!" (and mind you almost 0 of these videos you can actually vet, there is no sign to verify what conditions they were made in). He pretty much systemized that what he wants to believe--just because a woman somewhere says "yes", that's plenty of plausible deniability to feel the impulse to strangle someone with 0 consent.

Also I'm sorry to women that are into it. It's just I hear men constantly go on about how it makes "loose women" tighten up when they beat and strangle them - that this is most of the appeal - and I just...get grossed out, and I don't really understand why women are into such men, but whatever.