Condoms, do you lose sensitivity with them on? (i watch a lot of porn so not sure if i could get it up with one on, porn is a bit of desensitiser to the real thing i can understand)
Yes, you do. But it still feels good.
If you're in a relationship how does condom free sex work without getting the girl pregnant? I've heard of coitus interruptus, family planning (sex when she's least likely to get pregnant in her cycle), and the girl wearing a dam or some kind of birth control but how does it work exactly?
Birth control and smart work on the guy's part. If things start to feel REALLY good, then pull out to make sure no little dribbles sneak into her. Semen can live a long time, so don't use cummy hands to finger.
How long does it take to train oneself not to cum straight away so they could practise bareback sex with a committed partner?
Ok, so this is a trick that takes time to master. You have a little muscle that needs working out. It is the same muscle that you tighten when you are holding pee, and is also the muscle that spasms when ejaculating. Focus on the muscle. Try clenching it and flexing it only, just for a few seconds. Do it like a regular workout, and it will get stronger. Once you can master isolating it then you can use it to stop, nearly completely your ejaculation. Also the stronger the prostate muscle, then farther your jizz will shoot.
blowjobs, do you have to be wrapped up for that too? [i keep thinking whats the point if you have a condom on in that situation, its like watching a plastic glove finger getting sucked off]
As long as they and you are both STD free, blowjobs don't need protection.
For missionary sex between a guy and girl, who is normally on top?
Whoever wants to be.
if its the guy, how does the girl not get crushed by the weight of the heavier guy on top of her?
Use your arms, elbows and shoulders to support your own weight!
first time sex, do you have to lay sheets down for the deed to prevent various liquids from getting all over the bed?
Just clean them after your done.
what about bleeding, is that common or rare for female virgins to bleed?
Surprisingly, yes it is common. Different birth controls can make a girl bleed easily.
what about all those awkward sounds farting, etc how do couples deal with it?
You find a way to work around them lol
say you have a condom on and you've fucked her once and cum, can you use the same condom for round two?
If it has cum in it, then get a new one. The semen can be pressed out and leak into her, and the condom will almost instantly start to slide off.
do you have to take it off, pee, wash your dick and put a fresh one on?
Just wipe down and start fresh.
what are the rules around shaving for males and females? i kind of feel like i would like to have as less hair as possible down there, and for my partner to be the same, is this disrespectful to ask?
No, its not. Just be polite about it.
what about hygiene and oral, what is a normal taste for a vagina versus something you'd have to tell your partner about? what is the first time basics for going down on a woman?
A good clean vagina wont taste like anything, really. Just make sure you wash your stinkhole to avoid smells.
i have many more questions but will start with that as a first.
PM me and ask away bruh.