Hi friend

I do some medium work, bur don't promote myself as a medium because I don't reach out to spirits first (I wait for them to reach out to me if that makes sense)

I am with your father at the moment.

He has a lot he wants to say to you, but little he can say.

He is a large, comfortable presence. What was his job? I'm getting a construction / truck driver vibe. He's saying that I'm off but not wrong.

He wants you to know that he's with you and the kids. He regrets not being more honest in life, but he thinks it really doesn't matter now. Everything is out in the open.

He's changed. He's not what he was. He had some demons in life that were part of his process then. He lived as a dualism; almost two personalities. But his dark side is now integrated and he's free to fully act on the love he always felt.

I think he was very kind in life. But he's sharing a sense of burden and darkness that dominated him.

He's offering you his care, if you're willing to accept it. And to be with you and build with you over time.

If you don't want him around he will respect it. But he wants to have an ongoing conversation with you.