Weekly Relationship Check-In and Support Thread

I have known this guy for a little over a year, we've been official for 4 months because he had deployed 2 months after I met him. He's a really good guy, but he's from Virginia moved to Cali for marines, I live in Cali. He had a gf in Virginia for a long time, on n off in hs and a little bit after. I found out a month after being official that they were still talking when me and him met, but had been broken up for 4 months. And also found out they had talked here and there throughout deployment. She would go to him telling him stuff about her family and telling him her family misses him. He told me it was all innocent and polite stuff. And this is while I was being loyal to him over deployment. I found her Instagram and she's the polar opposite of me. Tall, white/middle eastern, big boobs and thick with a nice figure. I'm 5' tan thin with a nice butt but 0 boobs. She's super photogenic and he still follows her on all social media and likes all her pics on Instagram, while also following her finsta. I can't help but feeling insecure and it's been driving me crazy for a long time because she's completely his type..me on the other hand is debatable. And on top of them keeping eachother in their lives and me seeing suspicious things here and there with them. He told me he chose to break up with her and she had sex with his best friend and I'm a thousand times better than her. But the only reason they're not together was because the distance. He didn't choose me over her. So I would just like some advice because she just keeps getting prettier and prettier and I just feel like I'm not enough for him physically. So some advice would help so much because I don't want to ruin this relationship with my insecurities, but then I also don't know if I should be worried about them. And also she wants to come out to LA, like of course...Thank you!

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