What did a SO do that made you stop and realize "They're NOT the one"?

She called me, "a psychopath" and I said, "well, that's not very nice".

She didn't understand how to be nice and backed up with well, "I am right. I have my reasons."

I told her, "your a cunt".

She got really upset and I told her, "I am joking, but now you see its not nice to call eachother names!"

She left but not until raising hell with her voice and going through something I just was better left without. I feel sorry for whatever she is dealing with but a person who doesn't hold themselves accountable for anything simply won't grow much in my opinion. She was always playing the victim. I want the best for her but I also want the best for me which is why I had to leave her. I used to be in her shoes playing as victim, but I learned through it. I learned accountability, responsibility, failure, sacrifice, trust, patience, and less selfish and acting without ego.

I am on a path of doing better things with my life because the quality of things are better and more authentic. I wish she was about doing the same thing, but she clearly still wants to be the same.

Oh well.

I am now stronger, more wise, and I am making better money than I ever have. I can focus and pursue the things I always wanted to do. Unfortunately I am really bad at flirting and communicating with females so I have a bunch of work to do in that department. That will come with time or maybe I will change the game in which females will now have to come to us males since this game is such a double standard bushido!!

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