"Like we subs/bottoms all have that fantasy of that straight jock/bully in high school fucking us and Dominating us but I think we should leave it as a fantasy and not try to live it out and certainly not pay arrogant guys to use us when we can find a good Dom who’ll use us the right way and still value us. "

I do agree with that and wish people just would, but people won't. If there's a thirsty bottom who is pathetic enough to pay a "straight" dude who have the exact same experience he'd have with an openly gay man, I can't really blame these "straight" dude for securing the bag.

I just don't care enough to let this bother me. I'm not involved in it either way so it's not my loss.