NSFW I had a girlfriend with some weird fetishes for a while. She had come from a really conservative background and in college she really let loose. I guess in her mind anal sex was the grossest and worst thing a person could do so naturally she wanted to give it a whirl and we were dating at the time. We had not had sex yet but she brought it up and what was I going to say, no? So we go see the last final destination movie, the shitty one with the nascar deaths. Fast forward to her place and we do the deed, she really liked it but complained terribly for a while about the pain. Didn't work out with her long-term because there were some quirks there which were seeds for some real crazy down the line but we kept in touch. She tells me one day years later that she doesn't like anal with her now-husband because he doesn't make her butthole hurt like I did. At first I was like "yeah wang power" but then she told me it is because of his lack of enthusiasm toward sex with her at all. Really left me scratching my noggin for a while after that conversation. Still pops into my head from time to time.