Well for women it's financial stability. Like me when I lost my job she started looking for men with better stability. Got a new good job after she left me.... So love isn't the main thing they stick around for. The have to feel secure financially with you to even stay. If I didn't lose my job she would probably still be next to me. But being a bum for over a month on unemployment really pushed her to not seeing me in her future. She saw a home together, kids, wedding rings. But I got stuck in a major bind and happened to also lose her. All I can say is I hope she finds her happiness. I was a wreck for a month. It still bugs me she couldn't just wait a little longer. Because I do have a form of love for her. And it's painful knowing some other dude gets to hold her now.