Keep wishing you could share a life update with your ex, but you’re currently NC? Share it here instead!

This isn't something I've thought about myself, but I guess I would say: the medication has changed everything, therapy is going well, I've been traveling to check out grad schools and I barely have to pay for hotel rooms because of mom's job, I've been enjoying my own job but I'm certain that it's not where I want to go next (and that's actually very helpful knowledge), I have a great plan for this summer that could change a lot of things, I've been teaching voice lessons again and remembering how much I love it, I have a bunch of new friends to hang out with who have been really supportive...I guess I have a lot of things to share!

Finally, and spitefully, I'd tell her to check out my Lodestone page. She abandoned me for Final Fantasy XIV, and so over the summer I decided that I'd become better than her at every aspect of the game. I am certain that I've accomplished that several times over at this point.

Petty? Absolutely. But she hurt me in ways that were indefensible, profound and entirely unnecessary. I think I can justify being a bit spiteful while also enjoying a great game.

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