Video about Fearful Avoidant deactivation around serious commitments described my recent breakup to the letter.

Oh believe me, I’m aware. I know I still have issues to work on. I wouldn’t be in therapy if I didn’t know. But I keep them to myself and my therapist, and anonymous reddit rants. I’m looking into further treatment options to resolve my remaining issues.

You don’t know me. You don’t know my life. You don’t know my ex. You don’t know my relationship. All you have is these snippets of my most confusing, emotionally charged thought spirals. If you hadn’t been so weirdly hostile out the gate, I’d have been open to having a conversation, so you could at least understood a bit. But I’m not obligated to explain myself, and I’m not gonna exhaust myself trying when the person came at me on the attack.

I’m FAR from perfect and that’s a fact. But you’re making some pretty cruel and off-base assumptions based on that.

/r/BreakUps Thread Parent