The thing about raising children is that each child is unique and it is a massive learning experience for both you and the child.

No shit. Wow I thought it would be the exact same.

Saying you would put your disabled child up for adoption because you are too lazy to do some research is unbelievably cruel.

Not because I'm lazy, because I'll be a bad mom to someone who requires extra attention. I have no experience so I'll be very bad at it.

Not to mention that a lot of non-physical disabilities are not exactly immediately noticeable and the longer it takes for the kid to get into the foster system, the worse their odds of being adopted.

I'm 1000% okay with mental disabilities.