I don't think he "jumped" straight to kicking her out.. when you're married for 15 years, you have built a relationship, and it sounds like a pretty healthy one, with a foundation of trust.

She said she was going out & the guy never gave it a second thought. Sounds a lot like me and my wife.. she regularly tells me she's going out with friends & I don't think twice about it.. I just tell her to have fun.

We are able to do this because I know her, I trust her judgment, and I have faith that she will always have our best interests in mind.

If she didn't come home one night after meeting a new best friend and I found out some shady shit went on like this

Or if she came home in this situation, telling her she needs to cut that friend off or move out would be perfectly reasonable.. just the same if I were the one being given the same ultimatum if the situation was reversed.

What she did completely shook his perception of his wife's judgment, her morals, and her trustworthiness. He wasn't mean to her, didn't tell at her, or abuse her.

Also, idk if you've ever seen someone that was roofied, but if she was up and walking around this ain't it. Furthermore, if these people were all "predators" they wouldn't have stopped at yer house to get the Roku.

They were all piss drunk & the boys thought they were gonna get laid & drunk wife was down to party. How else would they have gotten the idea to get the Roku?