Idk if this means anything to you, but I’m a married Christian woman. I was coming home from dropping my daughter off at school the other day and a construction worker was taking his shirt off. Quick though of, “man he’s sexy!” Went through my head. That is not the norm for me. I even went home and joked with my husband because I felt guilt that even popped in my mind!

What I’m trying to say is, that’s part of being human like you pointed out. Being married won’t change that. Having the right values and focus on faith though keep it a fleeting thought. You aren’t seeking it out and you aren’t ruining marriages over it.

Hopefully that made you feel a little better. We all have our vices and fall short of the glory of God. The important part is that we keep going and remember that we are loved. ♥️