Male chiming in here.

I’ve dated on both ends of the spectrum, back to back ironically enough haha

My previous ex had really amazing breasts. She was I believe a 32DD (?? I think that’s what she said idk it’s been a couple years almost) but she was TINY so they were huge and surprisingly very perky on her. She was 4’11” and maybe 90-95lbs, small tiny little frame but had absolute cannons! All kinds of back problems that poor woman. Her butt was basically not there lol. Very little butt, but that’s okay! We don’t discriminate. She was fun.

My most recent ex, opposite end of the spectrum. She was “thicc”, as we say these days haha. She was 5 foot even, about 130~, little boobs and a HUGE donk. Honestly a more perfect butt could not exist. Super round, perfect mix of firm but jiggly and her skin was perfectly smooth. Odd Asian genetics made it where she had zero body hair anywhere but her head, armpits and down there. Awesome.

Now, I will say that I definitely enjoyed my time with a big butt the most, but I think there exists a sweet balance right in the middle. If I had to pick, I’d say a big butt is better. Big boobs are very impressive because they’re so in-your-face, but you just can’t have quite as much fun.

I really don’t want to be that guy, but personality is certainly by far the most important thing for me. It’s corny as hell but holy crap were my exes fucking crazy. The one with the big tits was manipulative, she was a pathological liar, and a cheater! She cheated on her boyfriend with me and we never made it far enough to where she cheated on me, because I didn’t let it get to that point. Thank God. The one with the big butt was just… messed up mentally. She was borderline suicidal, depressed, and batshit insane. We would always fight and she would hurt herself in odd ways. One time she started slamming her head against the car window when we got in a fight. Nuts. No amount of superficial beauty would make me pick them over say, someone who I have a ton in common with and just sort of “click”. Sexual and physical attraction is certainly important in a relationship but it isn’t the end all be all. I think women who are comfortable in their own skin are so much more attractive that a girl with a huge fat ass or big ass titties.