Telling a woman that you are usually only friends with other females and don't really have any male friends,and to not get jealous about it, like you think it makes you sensitive. Usually being said by guys who make it a point to tell you they are "nice guys". These two things are the first red flags to me that you are a sociopath. They're even listed in things to look out for in narcissists and domestically violent men. Bonus points for possible sociopathy if you follow this all up with thinking I'll find you charming by telling me all the kids used to call you "theater straight".

You think you're snowing me and seducing me, but you're no special snowflake for these things, dozens of other men have already been trying to pull this garbage on me to get in my pants for a few decades now. You're no nice guy if you're having to expressly say so.

It all just tells me both men probably don't want to hang out with you anyways, probably because you are whiny and like to start drama, Mr. "Theater Straight."