I was friends with a girl that was a complete nutcase. Until this day I am wondering if maybe she had an undiagnosed mental illness. That's the only way I can maybe make sense of everything that was happening.
Here is a list of all the things she did:
She had 2 boyfriends as well as many hook ups and never used any contraception. Every month she would come crying to me that her period is late. She never learned her lesson. We live in a country were abortion is illegal!! Contraception is widely available and super cheap.
She had an obsession with sex to the point were she would go home with any guy we met. She would also go and have sex outside. We live in an Islamic country were even holding hands is not allowed in public and this girl is having sex with multiple guys in cars!! Also she would drag us to shady parties in the desert with random guys we just met. The amount of times we could have got killed or raped is unbelievable. And I would always go with her because I was worried about what she would do on her own.
She used to spend ALL her money on her boyfriend and we share an apartment and she wouldn't pay any bills. She had a low paid job and would constantly cry to me about it. But somehow she always had money for her boyfriend.
She would get drunk every night and most of the time wouldn't make it to work the next day. Of course she got fired after a few months.
Every time we are out and everyone is happy she would make up a story about someone who died. EVERY TIME WE GO OUT, SOMEONE DIES!!! At first we would console her. Until we realized she would say someone died and then 3 weeks later the same person would die. Also, her brother died apparently but somehow we still caught her talking to him on Skype. We just started going out without her.
She tried to have sex with my boyfriend multiple times. My roommate who is supposed to be my best friend. Whenever she wanted sex, she would go find the nearest available guy. If that happens to be my boyfriend, she doesn't care. It was like she would die if she got horny and didn't have sex right away.
I found out later that she used to tell almost all our male friends (and any random males we met) that I was into them and I was ready to have sex with them. EVEN WHEN I'M WITH MY BOYFRIEND. She tried so hard to get me to cheat on him because for some reason it bothered her to see me happy.
Any time I get dressed up or even look a little nice she would glare at me all day. If she was drunk enough she would tell me don't ever wear this outfit again, I don't want my boyfriend to think that you're prettier than me. She would constantly hide or throw away all my nice clothes and then deny that she ever went in my room. Eventually I had to get a key to keep my door locked. My bathroom is outside of my room. I realized she would sneak into my room when I'm taking a shower so she can steal my clothes. We are not even the same size, none of my clothes fit her. She would just steal my clothes and throw them away so I wouldn't look nice.
She always stood in the way of my happiness. She would make up rumors about herself and then tell me she heard that I spread rumors about her. Then she would say I forgive you because I am a good friend, but you're a shitty friend.
I have so many more stories about her but this is my first ever Reddit post and I doubt that anyone would even see it. It just feels good to get it off my chest. I lived in hell for a while before I finally cut her completely out of my life. I felt bad and let her live with me even after she lost her job. She couldn't afford rent and I didn't want to throw her out on the street. I should have just told her to fuck off a long time ago because it just wasn't worth all this trouble. I got her many job interviews and great opportunities. She would purposely fuck everything up so she could keep on living for free with me. Also she almost got me arrested!