You are in a difficult position because you obviously can't just ignore your parents wanting you home at a certain time. "Ask your parents how they would feel if her parents didn't like you just because you are black." is probably the best advice you received.

Make them feel bad for how they are making you feel.

Also, people of reddit, please advice me: wasn't it illegal on his mother's part to send a private picture to his aunt without asking his permission?

Please, don't use this against her though. Just don't let her do this anymore. Use a password to protect your phone.

I can't help you. You have to change things with your parents without breaking your relationship. With all three of them. Please, be also reminded of what others said: "C: have white girlfriend and allow her to be tormented and bullied by your parents"

If everything works out as it should, this is a possibility. Please ask your GF to talk with you if anything happens.

I wish you two will last. People like you in particular are the only hope we have to change the current status of things. If we only dated people of other races, there would be no races.