I (19M) am currently across the world in Spain hanging out with a girl (19F) that I’ve talked with on a language learning exchange app for +2 years and I have a huge crush on her, but she’s seeing someone right now. What do I do?

I am sorry to say this but you are in her friendzone/pen pal zone. If you are okay with being a pen pal friend to her while she sees other men then it is fine to continue. But if I were you I would avoid a long distance connection because it most likely will not work out since its important to see eachother often in a relationship.

You probably should have confessed your feelings early on but its been 2 years.

If I were in your position, I would probably not waste my time on it since it most likely wouldn’t work out unless you move to Madrid or she moves to your location.

There are so many women in the world and I am sure theres someone out there who is better.

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