We have free healthcare here, so I think most of my⁰ friends know what a colonoscopy is. And even though she doesn't know what it is, googleing it isn't that hard. I'm not any other friend, I think I'm not wrong if I want a little bit of attention? She could've ask what's wrong, what's your ilness etc. I'm having this illness since the 5th of December, I don't know how many tubes of blood and stool tests I gave. I didn't tell anyone other than my family about my condition, it's been 2.5 months and only told my friends about colonoscopy yesterday, nothing more. I'm not attention seeking, I've had this exact scenario but milder about 8,5 years ago so I was afraid they're gonna find tumors or inner bleeding or Crohn's disease. I wanted a bit of relief before colonoscopy but couldn't get it from this friend. I still love her and wont cut my ties with her this easily but I'm disappointed