I (25F) am struggling with why I am holding onto my relationship with him (31M)

Thank you... and I agree. I really want this to work, I have already made the decision that I will no longer drink for a while and also until I can handle my emotions while sober; because if I cant handle them sober than I have no business drinking. I am just nervous because when I said the same thing to him he responded that he wanted us to keep drinking and that just doesn't make sense to me.

Therapy has been doing wonders for me, its not my first time in therapy but it is the first time I can admit I have been receptive of it so I will not stop. I love where I am headed and am willing to admit that I need this now so I have no intentions to stop. Regardless if I stay with him or not.

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