This is largely what I suspect also. He doesn’t have a partner irl that I know of and I feel like he would tell me if he were seeing someone local. So I wonder if he is talking to people long distance and maybe even misrepresenting himself. Another commenter has accused me of just being nosy but I am more so concerned. He and I have been through a pretty insane few years and there isn’t much we haven’t talked about as far as events I know for sure are happening in our real lives. Since he is usually so open with me about those things I raise an eyebrow to the fact this is the one thing he’s very secretive/protective over. Like I guess my mind just goes to he is either scamming people or is involved with something not good. My hope is that it isn’t nefarious and is more like I mentioned about exploring a sexuality or s