In all honesty, if I was going through this relationship all over again I would have left during the year long-dry spell. I can honestly say the only reason that it has worked is because of me working on so hard on it back then.

Outside of our sex lives things are amazing, and our sex life currently is pretty good too, so there is nothing really worth a divorce. Our relationship has grown so much since then and I never would have had this amazing relationship if I had given up then.

I also used to be a lazy tool who worked part time and played World of Warcraft all day. She would lose her mind over anything and had some major insecurities. Getting married so young is insane because we are both completely different than we were when we got married. We just lucked out and grew together.