I[36M] was given an internal job offer with large raise and bonus. Wife[34] not on board.

The president of the company personally emailed me the offer. This man oversees 700 stores, corporate offices, distribution etc. Yet he has seen me grow and personally picked me.

My only saving grace is the company is on hold due to covid. But they want me in roll September 1st.

He asked me 5 days ago and said to answer by july 15th.

My wife is close but doesn't like her siblings. None of her extended family live here. I love my family but not super close. Not in a bad way. My father passed.

We would leave our friends but again its just a short drive to hang for the weekend.

We even looked at schools for our child. A and B ratings. Low crime rate, low everything. Even the sex offender website only listed 1 person in a 100 mile radius.

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