I'm sorry if I upset you at all :( I won't reply anymore after this. I just wanted to say that things are defined for us from our point in space/time. One thing might be defined one way by one person and a whole different way to another. That's what I meant. Our definitions of things are different bc of our experience. Most ppl would consider a hug only a good thing ever. Then some ppl feel like shit is being smeared on them when ppl hug them. Theres just no one size fits all for the def of murder. Some re-term it bc of the experience up to that point. Now, it's called "self-defense" or "unintentional". It still ended a life, but if you were to victim blame, they'd still be a murderer in the public's eye, even though they did it bc of a perceived threat to their survival.

I thought everyone was debating, so I decided to throw in my two cents. I really am sorry if you suffered any annoyance on my part. Have a good day! Your opinion is valid and I think you are a good person despite our slight difference of opinion and I'll work on my using "you" for universal language. I hadn't thought of it sounding attacking, so I learned a valuable lesson from you.