While I do think this whole argument and situation is bizarre, this is the first time I’ve seen… you could say a “red flag” from this relationship with him. I do want to compromise and talk more about this, but if I’m being honest I’m no longer open to the idea of living with him. He seems very financially irresponsible, it’s made me concern to even want to take this step further with him. I’ll let him know how I feel, once gain explain that I don’t expect him to have financial responsibility over me at all. Perhaps he can find a roommate of his own to accommodate to his wants? If it’s such a deal breaker then I guess we may have to separate… it sucks because I do like him a lot.