I'm sorry but being pro-life makes me question your integrity whether you supported your friends or not. You basically just said the equivalent of "I'm not racist because I have black friends". Everywhere in this thread you have defended OP's wife celebrating the deaths the way she did (which included misleading her husband), which means you are okay with it. Every therapist I've spoken to (who also have PhD's btw) about being excited for the day my abusers died have told me that it will not heal anything, it will pass as any other moment and all my trauma and experiences will still exist for me to heal from.

I repeat, PLEASE don't try and help rape victims. I meant to add this in my first comment, but the fact that you even said that pressuring someone isn't rape is disgusting. Please, for the sake of the recovery of victims, find a new career path.