AITA for not serving my wife breakfast, lunch, and dinner when she demands it?

You were almost totally right until you bashed the microwave. Contrary to popular urban myth, microwaves are the least likely tool to destroy nutrients in our food. Example: when was the last time you seared some edges of your food into a delicious black carcinogen with a microwave?

But don't take my word for it:

Harvard Health https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/ask-the-doctor-microwaves-impact-on-food

https://www.wvlt.tv/content/news/Does-microwaving-vegetables-kill-the-nutrients-370647331.html

"Khrysta: The best cooking method to retain nutrients is one with a quick cook time, moderate temperature and as little liquid as possible. This makes microwaving, with very little water, one of the best cooking methods. Stir-frying and sautéing come next. Boiling is one of the worst for retaining nutrients."

Khrysta Baig, Nutritionist, Knox County Health Department

Khrysta holds a Master’s of Science in Public Health from the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health, Human Nutrition Program. She is a registered dietitian and a certified health education specialist.

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