It is understandable that you are upset with your boyfriend for not respecting your boundaries and for waking you up regularly, especially given the fact that you have trouble sleeping and that you have a demanding job as a chef.

It is not fair for him to continue this behavior and then lash out at you when you express your frustration.

It would be beneficial for both of you to have an open and honest conversation about your needs and boundaries in regards to sleep, and for him to make a conscious effort to respect those boundaries moving forward.

It is important for any relationship to have mutual respect and understanding of each other's needs and boundaries.