Nope not at all a 7 year old kid isn't even at the age yet of understanding. How many children have said they are a dog, cat or batman, but we correct them by saying that they are not? So why is this any different than a child saying he/she is the opposite gender without correcting them? Why is that acceptable in Western society, but a child can't identify as a dog.

So if you guys comes with that logic how can a child not decide for him or herself if he/she want to be adopted?

Let me repeat myself and use the hypocritical logic of you guys. A 7 year old can decide for him/herself if he/she identify as the opposite gender, but also a 7 year old can't make a decision for him/herself if she WANT to be adopted? How the fuck make that any sense?