AITA for telling my child’s mother I can parent however I want and my GF can get whatever tattoo she wants?

I’ll agree that the “respect men” part is questionable and potentially bad depending on what he meant. I’m really hoping he means that in the context of “feminists” who actually hate all men, not just hate toxic masculinity/patriarchy. Toxic femininity does exist and is counterproductive to the feminist cause (I’m saying this as a butch lesbian who hates “feminists” who shit on anything remotely masculine)

Asides from that, where does he say that a proper woman should stay at home?? He literally says he supports his daughter in becoming an independent person or a successful business woman if that’s what she wants. His problem with his ex wife was that she wasn’t helping him enough despite both of them working full time.

I’m not gonna say that the dad here is perfect since he does need to work on his issues with his ex wife because their feud is gonna negatively affect their kid, but my main problem in this comment thread is the fact that some people think perfect grades are the only acceptable grades. He already said her grades are great, just not all A’s. Unless she’s getting C’s or lower, the amount of time they spent on homework is not the issue.

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