Seems like to don't know what misogyny is
Misogyny is a hatred or women
This op isn't hating on women
The post says that the women were not as experienced as the men in this situation so they stayed out of the way while the men worked to resolve the issue quickly
op's fiancé decided to act hysterical which made the situation more stressful and dangerous
This isn't even about gender tbh. The experienced people worked to solve the problem while the inexperienced people stayed out of the way to let them focus. It just so happens that the men are experienced in this situation while the women weren't because they've been on more boating trips than the women
So I don't see why you have a problem with the women waiting while the men worked to "save the day"
Op is not ta but his delivery could have been better when he talked to fiancé about her behavior