Am I still a valid trans girl as a tomboy?

Yesyes sure, as i said, if you have drawn the jackpot in the nature lottery, all I'm saying doesn't apply on you. But if not, if your body and face is actually more masculine then you have to work with a lot of tricks to make it look more female passing and that's not gonna work with male clothes... In my opinion being valid as a woman comes with passing. If everyone sees on the first view that i am trans then i already failed being a woman because then I'm automatically not treated equally as cis women by society. Again, what does it help me if i convince myself to be a valid woman if everyone around me sees me as men and forces themself to use female pronouns just as a matter of politeness.

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