Relatable. The first time I decided to enter the romantic context and I probably scared the dude with my intensity. I know exactly what I did wrong on my part- I feel more deeply, my bad, and the intensity was what fueled it....but I also was just not in the right mental state so I was also a mess. This was all over text too, btw. I can't imagine how I would have been irl, especially with my eyes (I agree with the other comment, "it's in your eyes bro").

My good friend is also an INFJ, she's the same way with all the guys she talks to. We literally spent the past 3 months obsessively trying to figure out what's wrong with us, why we are "too much", and this subreddit truly helped us comprehend that we are just naturally emotionally intense individuals.