Ok here's my virgin male attempt at explaining this.

Let's say I want to order a pizza. I prefer to have ham on my pizza, but it's really not that big of a deal. I'm perfectly fine with having a regular pepperoni pizza, and honestly, it doesn't necessarily make the pizza any less enjoyable. Pepperoni pizza is still delicious.

And it's not like the ham is the only deciding factor. Let's say one pizza joint offers ham, while another one doesn't. Maybe the pizza joint without ham has better cheese, or maybe they also make really good chicken wings. Maybe they've been in business longer and have perfected their craft.

This other joint, though? Sure, they've got ham, which is nice. But maybe their cheese sucks, and they don't sell chicken wings at all. Maybe they've only been in business a week and have no idea what they're doing. Heck, maybe they burn the ham or put too much on.

I think I'd rather have the place without the ham.

Now, translate this into sex terms. Let's say I want to have sex. I prefer an above-average cock, but it's not really that big of a deal. I'm perfectly fine with an average dick, and honestly, it doesn't necessarily make the sex any less enjoyable. Sex with an average dick is still great.

And it's not like a big dick is the only deciding factor. Let's say one guy has a big penis, while the other is average. Maybe the average guy has a great personality and is fun to be with, or maybe he's good with his tongue and hands. Maybe he's more experienced, and he knows how to please a woman better.

The big guy, though? Sure, he's got a sizable cock, which is nice. But maybe he's a douchebag, and doesn't know how to eat a girl out worth shit. Maybe he's inexperienced. Heck, maybe his dick is too big!

I think I'd rather have the average guy.

Sure, some people are ham fanatics (size queens) who only eat ham pizzas (fuck big dicks), but some people don't like ham (big dicks) at all. They actually prefer pepperoni pizzas (average cocks).

This is just something I thought up. Maybe it's stupid or wrong. The point is, you don't have to worry. Girls won't be disappointed if you're average.