Is this chick trying to beta bucks me?
I recently made plans to go out for drinks with an old plate from pre-TRP days who I haven’t seen in a while. We texted each other Thursday to make plans for the following night. On Friday, we exchanged a few texts to discuss logistics. A few hours before meeting up, she asks if I’m cool with Chad. Chad is an old friend of mine who I also haven’t seen in a while. This seemed like a shit test but she definitely wants to (or already has) fucked Chad. I just said “yeah why” and she said the he was thinking of coming out.
His name never came up again and it ended up just being me and her. First she showed up at my place with a bottle so we could pre-game. While we were pre-gaming, we were just catching up on stuff, talking about sex lives and relationships and the like.
After an hour or so we went out to a bar. I bought the first round since she supplied the pre-game drinks. The second round I just grabbed a water to see if she would still try and get me to pay for it, and she did pay but I could tell she was waiting until the last second to open her wallet, as if I was supposed to pay $15 for a cup of water.
Throughout the night she was dancing on me and basically just rubbing her ass on my dick the whole time. I was grabbing her ass and what not, and we both had initiated a few conversations about times we had sex in the past and how fun it was and stuff.
Here’s where it gets a little weird: she kept disappearing into the bathroom for like 20 mins at a time. I obviously know people go into the bathroom to do drugs, and I know she was sniffing some shit, but 20 mins at a time? I’ve known a lot of drug users and it never takes anyone 20 mins. And the bathrooms were not that busy at all. Something was just really weird about it.
Anyway, once we leave there it’s pretty late so we head home. On the way home she keeps shit testing me by mentioning all of her orbiters as many times as possible. She would say things like “OMG haha Bob is such a creep! He’s this kid on my snapchat and every time I snap something he messages me and asks to take me out! Isn’t that creepy?!” And I would just smile and say something like “I’ve been meaning to make a snapchat, I’m gonna do that soon”. And then she would repeat herself about the orbiter because it was pissing her off that she wasn’t getting the responses she was expecting.
She was acting all sick or whatever by the time we got to my house and said she wanted to go home. I told her to text me when she got home because I’ve been trying to make a habit of that whether I have sex or not, because of a post I read on TRP about avoiding delayed rape accusations.
She texted 10 minutes later and said she was home, and asked if “I was good”. I guess she probably thought I was pissed we didn’t fuck or something, I’m not sure. Then she texted me to “come cuddle” so I drove over to her place and she was literally trying to cuddle I guess. She was asleep when I got there but I woke her up and I tried to escalate like 3 times and she was “way too tired” or whatever.
I ended up leaving pretty shortly since I was trying to fuck and not trying to cuddle(give validation) to this drinker/drug user/party girl who I’ve already fucked several times in the past.
I know, abundance mentality and just next her since she’s no good and I already fucked her anyway. But, regardless I would still like to know what this girl’s end game is here. Is she trying to just add me to the beta orbiter circle and get cuddles and validation? Or did she maybe have her period or something that night?