Just my opinion but if you're spending time and resources to chase women you're not really gyow. You're still a slave to your dick. I understand how hard it is, especially for younger guys. But if you're overcome with a need to stick your dick in things, you're not much different from the other animals on this planet. As far as I'm concerned sexdrive is little more than a primative remnant of our biological past, like my appendix. Sure it feels good but it's not the best thing in the world and the risk is just too high. I learned a long time ago that the majority of actions men take are in the pursuit of getting pussy whether they realize it or not. For me, to truly gmow means overcoming those sexual desires that my dog cannot.