Calling other women hot

I do think its strange to do especially early on when youre trying to court someone. I was seeing a guy for 4 weeks, spent a lot of time together. There was chemistry. But he would do that all the time including about instagram people he know, he’d show me and tell me they’re attractive. He even paid for topless instagram girl accounts on top of paid porn. I found it odd he would keep telling me about girls appearances though I wasn’t particularly feeling insecure. But then when he met my good friend, he woke up one day with the first thought would she do a threesome with us? He asked three different times if he can make me a first wife and get a second in case i couldnt have kids, in case he needed more. He wanted me to wear high end designer clothes I couldnt afford. He wanted me to do heavy makeup contouring which isnt me. Meanwhile he just wears hoodies. He would tell me how on his travels he would match with a girl on an app and have a fling, that I should so it its fun. He claims to be very religious and wont shake womens hands but says hes slept with over 100 and expected a dress code out of me. There was just a lot of disrespect and cognitive dissonance delivered in odd ways for that guy so I ended it. How would you say the overall vibe was?

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