I tried for over a year with my wife before discovering she was unable and she had to have a radical hysterectomy. Then I nursed her through the recovery process. 4 months later she was in the hospital with a brain tumor. They had to shave her head and cut her open from ear to ear. I cleaned the wound, gave her injections in her stomach, I fed her, dressed her, had to help her to the bathroom.

Yes I’ve been in love and yes I have faced adversity. You clearly don’t care what I or anyone else thinks because any mature adult of sound mind would tell you that what you did was incredibly reckless. The fact your relationship didn’t survive is proof enough you weren’t ready. Man