Hell yeah on the car and vacation, man. These are no small accomplishments in this status quo. I’m a woman, and for what it’s worth, this is something that I find attractive. The money? Envious, sure, but I’m more piqued by your ability to set goals and reach them. Plus, you probably saw some crazy shit in Honolulu. I’ve never had the opportunity to see it myself. I’ve had 2 true blue relationships in my adult life and married/divorced the 2nd. I admire your belief in yourself, truly, as I struggle with low confidence despite being someone who’s been able to land love in the past.

I hope the world leads you to someone you truly love being around and who’s proud of having you.