They said "I've always wanted to go but I talk myself out of it" by telling them to suck it up I was just trying To get them to go. It wasn't meant in a a negative way. Families go to Bonnaroo. people literally bring their children. He said he wouldn't want a rude or sarcastic answer he'd prefer a no. He also asked could he handle it. I think he can. Bonnaroo is a learning experience and I'm doing a few things differently then last year to better my experience. They've "always wanted to go" Also they said VIP tent. Which is as they said "taking it easy" Also they don't have to camp or even go all the days. There are a hundred different ways to Roo. Ways subduable for all ages and all types of people.

I said "suck it up" for tough love. They won't know unless they go.